Can you resonate with any of the below statements?
- I’ve had a number of failed relationships
- I think I found the perfect soul mate but after a few dates, or a few months, we’re not incompatible
- I can’t seem to find anyone I can truly connect with
- My friends are happy in a relationship and I want that for me
If you answered YES to any of the above items, and you’re actively seeking a SOUL MATE, read on ..
definition of soul mate
Search through Google and you’ll find any number of definitions of SOUL MATE. Here’s an example:
1 : a person who is perfectly suited to another in temperament.
2 : a person who strongly resembles another in attitudes or beliefs ideological soul mates
SHARED VALUES AND BELIEFS
The majority of definitions revolve around compatibility and shared values and beliefs.
If you haven’t found your SOUL MATE yet I would propose you haven’t got to grips with your values, beliefs, needs and wants. As soon as you understand yourself better, and work out what you want rather than what you don’t want in a partner, your reticular activating system (in built antenna) will be alert and actively seek out your match.
So are you willing to put in the leg work so you can quickly, easily and effortlessly attract your SOUL MATE? Great!
Exercise:
1 : Grab a pen, paper and ring fence an hour of your time.
2 : Be conscious of everything you want in a partner.
3 : Be conscious of your values, your hobbies, what you like about your previous partners, etc.
NOTE what you didn’t like about your previous partner and then flip the comment to a positive.
FLIP IT Example:
I don’t like the way they didn’t bring me coffee in bed on a weekend … FLIP IT .. I would like my partner to bring me coffee in bed on the weekend.
I don’t like that my partner didn’t tell me what time they were coming home on a night out. I would lay awake worrying about them. FLIP IT .. I would like my partner to be respectful and communicate positively with me
belief
Armed with your list of all the things you want in an ideal partner, aka SOUL MATE, commit to the idea that you will attract your SOUL MATE.
Be alert to people who match your list. Only look out for matches release looking out for non matches as this will drain you of time and energy.
Remember .. timing is everything and everything in it’s own time!
